FAQ's...

1.) What is Pleasures Retreat?
Pleasures Retreat is a Private Members Club for Lifestyle Swingers. Discerning Adults will find a First Class Venue where Couples can become skilled at Enhancing their Relationships.

2.) Are there different kinds of Swingers?
YES! Here is a brief summary:

A.) Exhibitionists: About the only place you won't find this type is in a private room. They enjoy having people watch them have sex and admiring their appearance. You will often find these are the people who have the sexiest or wildest clothing. Some may see exhibitionists as being conceited, but this isn't always the case. Some find that dressing sexy and knowing that people like what they're seeing gives them a self esteem boost that they may not normally have.

B.) Same Room Swingers: These are couples who prefer to swing together in the same room or at least have their partner present during their encounter.

C.) Seperate Swingers: The opposite of above, couples who are more comfortable NOT having their partners present during their encounter.

D.) "Friends First" Swingers: People who prefer to get to know someone before having sex. This may mean socializing at clubs, exchanging e-mail and chatting online, or going out on a few dates first (dinner, movies, sports events, etc...same as traditional dating).

E.) "Sport Sex" Swingers: Couples and singles who are strictly interested in sex..as frequently and with as many partners as possible. They are not necessarily interested in friendships or sharing non-sexual activity with the people they meet. This is the exception to the rule...most prefer a "friends first' relationship.

F.) Voyeurs: Couples and singles who enjoy watching others having sex. They often use watching as a form of foreplay and will play with each other while watching or go to a private room after getting turned on.

3.) What do I wear?
Wow..that's open ended! Wear whatever is comfortable. BUT Blue Jeans and an old teeshirt is not going to turn any interested heads. Be fresh. Wear Layers if you must so you can slowly peel if the mood stikes you. Some women pack a bag and change constantly. The most important thing is that you feel good about yourself. Gee are you naked already?

4.) What do we bring??
a. (Most Important!) Bring Open Minds!
b. You need ID on your first visit to gain a membership.
After that, just bring your membership card.
c. BYOB. We do not sell Alcohol.
The standard mixers are available free of charge.
d. Towels are provided.
e. You may wish to bring a change of clothes.
f. Condoms are available. Lube is not.
SAFE SEX IS ENCOURAGED AT ALL TIMES!

5.) How confidential is our membership?
Discretion is of the utmost importance to us. By Law, we are required to have a membership agreement. It is mainly to ensure legal age. It does not matter if it is obvious that you are of legal age. All private information will be stored off site in our lawyers office.




6.) Are there any nearby hotels?
Yes, there are! We recommend The Delta Town and Country Inn You can call them Toll Free 1-888-777-1266
We also recommend The Sundance Inn Ph: 604-946-2521



7.) is this definitely a safe place in case some guys wanna come on hard to my wife..? and if there are staff to check such guys / people..?
There is nothing like that going on. A) It is not a singles club so we do not have droves of single men looking for action. Single women are welcome..as single women blend in easily anywhere. B) All couples in the lifestyle have respect and manners and understand the etiquette. We all have a fine appreciation for respect. Sometimes, someone will have a bit too much to drink and embarrass themselves more than anything, but our security will always be on watch to make sure everyone is comfortable at all times.




8.) what if we are only interested in Soft Swinging ...?
That is one of the best things about our club! Everything is OK! You can just be voyeurs if you like.....whatever the mood sets you to. If you are comfortable, do it! If not....so what....just relax, enjoy...and see where you go...

Pleasures Retreat will never sell, distribute, or share your address to a mailing list. Your privacy and trust is our Club's most important priority.